Your Ultimate Guide to Planning the Perfect Weekend Wedding at Boconnion, Cornwall
Imagine a whole weekend surrounded by your favourite people, soaking up the Cornish countryside, sipping cocktails by the pool on Friday night, saying “I do” on a sun-drenched lawn on Saturday, and finishing with a laid-back Sunday brunch before you say farewell. At Boconnion, weekend weddings are more than just a day — they’re an experience.
As Boconnion’s in house wedding planner, I’ve helped countless couples turn their wedding into a full weekend celebration, combining style, flexibility, and unforgettable memories in the heart of Bodmin, Cornwall.
Boconnion Manor House sleeps 17 guests and is the heart of your weekend wedding - Bert Palmer Photography
Why Choose a Weekend Wedding at Boconnion?
Weekend weddings give you the freedom to celebrate without rush. Boconnion’s exclusive-use ensures you and your guests have the estate entirely to yourselves, offering privacy, luxury, and flexibility. From a poolside welcome evening to a leisurely Sunday brunch, a weekend wedding transforms your big day into a multi-day experience that your friends and family will cherish forever.
The estate itself offers so many spaces to create a unique weekend experience — whether it’s lounging by the swimming pool, enjoying a game on the tennis courts, or exploring the grounds for hidden corners perfect for photos or intimate gatherings. Each area can be styled and transformed, allowing you to make each day feel fresh and special.
“Not only is the estate absolutely stunning (and completely yours for the duration), it’s packed with amazing amenities and run by a brilliant, welcoming team. We booked the full weekend and hosted a pool party on the Friday - the perfect way to kick off a fun-filled few days with everyone we love. What makes Boconnion extra special is that it’s a beautiful blank canvas - you can truly make it your own. The barn has a gorgeous rustic charm, and the lawns are ideal for entertaining.”- Penny and Sam 2025
Weekend Weddings at Boconnion Estate - Drew Buckler Photography
Friday – Welcome Drinks and Pool Party Vibes
Start your weekend on a relaxed, stylish note. Guests arrive and settle into the estate’s charming accommodation, ready to unwind and mingle. Friday evening at Boconnion is perfect for a laid-back pool party: picture an Ibiza-style atmosphere with a curated outdoor bar, sharing platters, and sunset tunes.
The swimming pool and surrounding terrace can become the weekend’s hub for casual gatherings, while the tennis court or lawns offer opportunities for friendly competitions or themed activities, making every corner of the estate a stage for memories.
Keep things informal and fun. Guests can enjoy alfresco bites by the pool, from street food-style vans, BBQs and sgaring boards. Boconnion works with a range of caterers, so there is something for everyone.
Add a few personal touches like festoon lighting, chill-out zones, or a cocktail station to create a magical welcome that sets the tone for the weekend.
Marquee Weddings at Boconnion - Bert Palmer Photographer 2025
Saturday – The Big Day
Saturday is when your wedding story unfolds. Boconnion offers multiple ceremony lawns, each providing a unique backdrop, whether you want an intimate garden setting or a sweeping outdoor ceremony.
Your day could flow seamlessly: say your vows on the lawn, enjoy drinks and lawn games while your photographer captures golden-hour memories, and then move into the barn or marquee for a sumptuous wedding breakfast. As the evening sets in, dance under the stars with live music and end the night with late-night snacks to keep the party going and fire pits to keep you warm.
Saturday’s food: Boconnion collaborates with 12 caterers, offering everything from traditional sit-down meals to informal BBQ, street-food stations. Couples can choose to host wedding breakfasts alfresco on the lawns or inside the barn, creating exactly the style of meal they envision. From multi-course fine dining to interactive food stations, every culinary experience can be tailored to the couple’s personality.
“Working closely with couples, I can design celebrations across the estate that make each day unique. From poolside cocktails to tennis tournaments, we turn the weekend into something truly special.” — Caroline Griffiths
Marquee Weddings at Boconnion (Absolute Canvas Marquees) -Bert Palmer Photography
Sunday – The Farewell (or Extra Celebration!)
Many couples love adding a relaxed Sunday to their weekend wedding. It’s a perfect way to unwind, reconnect, and savor the final moments with your guests. Brunch on the terrace, poolside picnics, or friendly tennis matches provide a gentle close to a vibrant weekend.
Sunday’s food: Keep the atmosphere informal and indulgent. Guests can enjoy breakfast or brunch options ranging from a Cornish-inspired buffet to more interactive street-food-style setups. Boconnion’s flexible catering ensures that even on the final day, every bite is memorable, whether served outside in the sun or inside the barn if the weather calls for it.
“Our wedding weekend was nothing short of perfection! Caroline and her team went above and beyond making sure everything ran smoothly from the moment we arrived. From the Friday evening pool party, to the Sunday morning walk around the grounds it was more than we could have hoped for.
Caroline and team; thank so much for helping us create our perfect wedding. It truly was a weekend we will never forget!” -
Mr & Mrs Brown May 2025
Sunset Vibes - Bert Palmer Photography
Planning Tips from Your In-house Wedding Planner
Book early – Weekend slots at Boconnion are highly sought-after.
Treat each day as a chapter – Friday, Saturday, and Sunday can each have its own theme or mood.
Personal touches matter – Welcome hampers, morning yoga, private chef experiences, or Cornish delicacies elevate the weekend.
Work with a planner – Seamless coordination of suppliers, styling, and logistics ensures your weekend is stress-free and beautiful.
Ready to Plan Your Weekend Wedding at Boconnion?
If you’re dreaming of a weekend wedding in Cornwall filled with laughter, style, and unforgettable memories, Boconnion could be your perfect match. With exclusive use, sleeping 45 guests, multiple ceremony lawns, and endless opportunities for bespoke celebrations, your wedding weekend will be truly one-of-a-kind.
Contact me, Caroline Griffiths, Boconnion’s wedding planner, to start designing your bespoke weekend wedding in the heart of Cornwall.
